Wednesday, July 28, 2010

children

Last night we saw the kids...Cassie and Kyle came up with all of their beautiful children! They have got to be the best looking kids I have ever seen!!! I mean besides my own. I have to admit"we have some pretty kids" They were on vacation last week.I sure did miss them,we don't see them everyday or even every week, but I talk to them everyday. Harper seemed like she had grown a foot, she is getting so tall! Calvary is a looker he's going to break some hearts...hope not! Oliver Jack is just so sweet and funny, he just wins your heart right away, and then there is Finley Rose...she is just plain beautiful, it's always fun for them to come up. OK sometimes it can get alittle loud, alittle bit of sensory overload.But we love it! That's just kids. Jade always gets over stimulated!(LOL!!!) She just loves to be little momma and to be in charge. She loves to play with them and always looks forward to them coming up, however she is 4 to 9 years older than them. And somebody always gets up upset...doesn't last long, she means well she really does! Anyway I guess what I'm saying is "kids will be kids"
That sibling rivalry is both normal and inevitable, Instead of reacting to the fighting by intervening, I believe parents should teach their children to settle things for themselves.Stepping in may actually reinforce fighting.Kids will normally learn what they can do to get mom involved...I believe like most things it takes 2...and (MOST) times it's not just 1 that is to blame...like I said kids will be kids and alot of time they are not "angels" but little demons...always our little angels!And we love them unconditionally!!!

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