Monday, June 28, 2010

bringing up girls....

I have been reading bringing up girls. I have already brought up one girl, but she was EASY!!!! Maybe it was because she had 2 brothers, who knows. But she was a breeze! I think Jade is going to make up for her.I didn't know girls COULD start going through puberty...well " juvenile puberty" between 6 and 30 months...that's why you see some of those little boy and girls are humping their blankies or teddy bears!!!
But, then again around 7 or 8 they start again. James Dobson Say's it can make her in reality alittle "HELLISH" Welcome to my world...and to put the icing on the cake,
he also states that since girls are starting puberty earlier and because women are having children later.Mothers are going through the stress of menopause at the same time their daughters are entering the age of sexual awakening...and the 2 hormonal experiences at the same time can cause in his words a "train wreck"! Well guess what the train is about to explode!!!He also states that dad beware, and maybe you should get out of Dodge every now and then.
I just didn't have this problem with Cassie, we had our "MOMENTS" but my goodness not 24/7. Jade can be so sweet, she is loving, she loves babies and old people, she loves to help at the soup kitchen. But her and I just clash! She needs a mentor, I'm serious. She doesn't have anybody except Bruce and I. No grandparents(we are it) others kids go spend time with grandparents some, I'm going to get me some of them!!!
It would be nice to find someone to spend time with her, someone Godly. If not she is going to grow up thinking "go to your room" is just what you do! Any takers??

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